Friday, September 27, 2013

Guilt-Free Friday: Sandwich Rounds

Back in action! Or trying to be, anyway... I created a bread recipe awhile back, but never posted it.  That's okay, because I like this one a whole lot better.  I tell you what, it is soooooo nice to be able to have sandwiches again.  BLTs, hamburgers, whatever.  And just like my flaxseed tortilla recipe, it's nice to have options outside of wrapping your sandwich or wrap ingredients in a lettuce or cabbage leaf.

The original recipe came from Comfy Belly, and I tweaked it to work with what I had on hand, for example the original recipe called for yogurt, and since we limit dairy here at our house, I didn't have any of that in my fridge, so I used almond milk instead.  It turned out good, but runny and the finished product tasted amazing but was super soft.  This would probably do well as a pancake recipe.  So I decided a little coconut flour might help the situation, and I ended up changing the whole thing.  And it turned out pretty darn good.  Yay!

*** 2/3/16 UPDATE *** I changed this recipe again as I was having trouble with the recipe holding up as leftovers.  They worked beautifully the first day, but would just get crumby and fall apart the next day.  Which doesn't work well if you're trying to meal-prep.  I'll leave the original recipe up, since I added arrowroot powder and not everyone has that on hand (even though you should because it makes amazing tortillas), so if you don't want to go out and buy yet another weird ingredient, you don't have to, just be aware that you may not get a sturdy leftover out of these.

2 cups almond flour
1/2 cup flaxmeal
1/2 cup arrowroot powder
3 tbsp coconut flour
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
1 3/4 cups almond milk
1/4 cup unsalted butter or coconut oil, melted
3 large eggs
2 tbsp honey

Follow baking instructions as explained below.




2 cups almond flour
1/2 cup flaxmeal
3 tbsp coconut flour
1 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
1 1/2 cups almond milk
1/4 cup unsalted butter or coconut oil, melted
3 large eggs
2 tbsp honey


Preheat your oven to 350°F. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
Place all ingredients in a mixing bowl and mix together.
Place about a spoonful of batter/dough (it'll be thicker than batter but smoother than dough) on the parchment paper and smooth it out flat, about 1/4" thin, in a circle the size you'd like your sandwich to be.  You can also make them more elongated for hotdogs or bratwurst.  Do this until your parchment paper is full of rounds.  Sprinkle with toppings if you'd like, such as flax seeds, poppy seeds, or sesame seeds.
Bake for 10-15 minutes, or until the rolls start to brown.
Transfer to a cooling rack, and let cool completely.  These should keep, sealed, in the fridge for about a week, or in the freezer for about a month.  Enjoy!


If you would like to try the first recipe, the ingredients are:

2 1/2 cups almond flour
1 tsp baking soda
1 cup almond milk
1/4 cup unsalted butter or coconut oil, melted
1 large egg
2 flax eggs
2 tbsp honey

Make it the same as above recipe, only bake for at least 15 minutes.  I think I'll try reducing the amount of milk if I try this version again.  It's definitely easier to pour them out like pancake batter, but they were almost too runny and too soft when done.  Let me know what your results are!  Here are some photos from the first batch:




I must say, it was soooooo nice to have a BLT again!!

Sunday, September 22, 2013

We All Have Battles...

Sorry for being out of touch, missing some Guilt-Free Fridays and not sharing any advice with you.  It's been nuts lately, and I'm trying to get back into the swing of things after the emotional roller coaster I've just been on.

I had a really bad week a couple weeks ago.  And there were no herbs, remedies, essential oils, or techniques that were going to make it any better.  Well, a bit of good ol' fashioned talk therapy did help keep me grounded so I could keep pushing through, but sometimes life just pees on us, and there's nothing we can do about it.

I wasn't really going to talk about it until another blogger friend wrote about a strangely similar experience, and I felt so much... better... knowing that I wasn't alone.  I wrote to her to thank her for the post and she encouraged me to share my story too, making a very good point that if more people felt comfortable opening up about their experiences, there would actually be more of a support system available, which is so true.

So you all know we're in the brunt of building a house.  And anyone who's built a house or done any sort of remodeling work knows how hectic that can be.  Justin's been laid off so he's been spending as much time as possible on the house (so I still really don't get to see him), and therefore I've been in single mom mode.  Which is okay, I've gotten into the groove and Harlee's much easier to care for than a newborn.  But it's still hard trying to stay on top of the new house progress, making decisions for it (what kind of brick, what kind of shingles to match, what kind of soffits to match, what kind of windows and what color casing, what style grills in the windows, what kind of front door, what color hardware for the front door, same thing with the patio doors, etc., etc., etc., kinda get what I'm saying?) and at the same time taking care of a two-year-old, making sure he's attended to while I'm at work, running a business, and staying on top of paying the bills, cooking dinner, doing laundry, and cleaning the house we currently live in.  And exercising on a somewhat regular basis, which I've found is a necessity in my life.  And I can't forget about staying on top of this blog, which is gaining in popularity (so cool!), and also preparing for and promoting the new classes I'm teaching at ClassOnMain in Red Bud.  I've still got room on my plate for a few more things, don't I??  Then recently a close family member got sick.  So I've had to rearrange my schedule and at the same time harbor concern...

Then on August 5th I got a positive pregnancy test.  I was sooooo excited.  I actually felt emotionally ready to have another child after the trauma of Harlee's birth, and I definitely felt physically ready.  So now not only was I experiencing building a house, running a business, and the current household, and staying active, all while caring for a two-year-old, I got to be pregnant on top of it.  And ya know what? I could handle it.  I had this.  It was a LOT on my plate, but it was all good stuff.  I was ready to embrace it.  I altered my workouts to adjust to my changing body, and everything went really smoothly.  Hardly any morning sickness, no pains, just fatigue.  Off to a great start!  We decided to keep this a secret though.  We told everyone WAY too soon for my comfort when we found out about Harlee - I needed time to process the idea of being pregnant, to let it sink in how much my life was going to change, because I was not ready to be pregnant at ALL that time.  It was nice to keep it our secret this time.  My favorite part was being able to go on through life normally - nobody asking me how I was feeling, or about my prenatal care and plans, or anything having to do with being pregnant.  I got to be normal, just like I was before.

Then our ill family member wound up in the hospital on Monday, September 9th.  And then that night I started having cramps.  And blood. And some intense low back pain.  And the cramps started coming in waves, one right after the next, and I knew... I knew what was happening.  Justin held together pretty well - took over with Harlee, made dinner, cleaned house, and I struggled in silence as the cramps got worse.  And when it was all over, I knew that was just it.  It was all over.
The next day, the 10th, was our 3 year anniversary.  Go figure.  I was an emotional mess.  It worked out pretty conveniently that I already had an appointment scheduled with my counselor.  I definitely needed therapy that day.  We talked about how different the two pregnancies were.  How I would have been relieved to miscarry the first time (which probably sounds like a horrible thing to say but, sorry, it's the truth and I'm not the only one out there that feels that way sometimes).  I was so NOT ready to be a mom when Harlee showed up in our lives.  I was bitter and reluctant about it.  I obviously grew into the idea, but the first couple months I would have been grateful to be let off the hook.  I don't care how horrible that sounds, it was how I felt.  I wasn't ready, just like a lot of unexpected first-time moms probably don't feel "ready".  I met that pregnancy with anger and resentment.  Of course it all changed later.  And I wouldn't trade Harlee for anything, and ultimately he's been such a blessing and has changed my life and our lives in such wonderful ways.  But I didn't always feel that way.  This time, however, I was excited to be pregnant again. Harlee was going to be a big brother.  He'd have a friend to grow with.  We would be done after two kids, so this would be the last time I'd be experiencing pregnancy.  I could get on with my life and my business, and watch these two grow into amazing people.  I was excited and ready.  We got an ultrasound on September 3rd, and got to see the little bean, and the little fluttering heartbeat, and I felt so much love... I never felt that when Harlee was on the way, which I feel bad saying... But it makes such a difference to be READY for a pregnancy.  Seeing that ultrasound made this that much more REAL, and I was that much more excited.  The new baby would be born in the early part of May, and I started thinking about changes in my business, how maybe I'd take maternity leave and close up my office completely, then move to a ground level office when I came back in July, and I was so excited for the year ahead.  We didn't tell ANYone about this, except four friends and people directly related to my healthcare.  Everything about this whole experience was so great.

Until Monday the 9th.  When the cramps hit, and the blood kept coming.  Not to mention it was two weeks before the anniversary of Justin's dad's death, which is always an emotional time for him anyway, so the next day being our anniversary... We weren't exactly in the mood to celebrate.  I scheduled another ultrasound just to know for sure what I already knew in my heart, and sure enough, there was the leftover of a bean, with no more flutter...

Sharpies work well when corkscrews are unavailable...
It felt good to finally just cry with Justin.  And we cried a lot after that.  We did go on a date together that evening, and that night we sat out by a lake with a bottle of wine from one of our favorite wineries (an anniversary gift from Justin's mom, which I thought I'd have to wait until next year to drink... I would have been okay with that...).  It was healing to just reflect on everything.  And we realized we should take this time now to keep our relationship strong.  I'll admit, we were trying for this baby.  By the time he or she was born, the house would be finished and we could enjoy our family of four in it.  But "trying" for a baby takes away from the other important elements of a relationship, like love and care and joy.  So we've agreed not to "try" anymore.  We're going to enjoy our love for one another and we're going to trust that whenever we're meant to be parents to a second child, that second child will come along.  Just like Harlee did.

The cramps didn't subside until Wednesday afternoon.  Those following days after Monday were hard, as crap just kept coming up. More bad news from the family member in the hospital, my supplements arrived in the mail that I had ordered so I could have the healthiest pregnancy possible, and EVERY BODY on Facebook was posting pictures of their babies or talking about how they were excited to be pregnant again, etc., etc., etc.  People would casually ask us when we're going to try for a second, and I now have a new understanding of how couples with fertility issues feel when they're asked questions like that.

In fact, I have a new respect for this kind of thing all around.  I'm the kind of person that if I grew old without ever having children, I wouldn't feel like I missed out on something, or that I was at a loss. My life has always been very full and fulfilling.  I have a successful business, I have great friends, I have a beautiful relationship with a wonderful man, and we've got many adventures ahead of us.  Harlee definitely adds something special to my life, and I wouldn't trade him for anything, but he isn't what completes me - someday he's going to grow up and leave us.  If I had nothing else to live for but him, where would I be?

That being said, I hate to say I honestly couldn't understand before how a miscarriage could be so devastating.  On top of that, they happen ALL the TIME.  But now I get it.  They are devastating.  If you were really excited to have that new addition to your family, that is.

I've been thinking a lot about how different everyone is.  How every woman and every family's experiences vary so greatly from one another.  I do feel like there should be less judgment and more compassion around this subject. I shouldn't have to feel bad for feeling like a miscarriage wouldn't have been a bad thing for me the first time around.  It would have been a relief, because I genuinely did not feel ready to become a mother.  And now I feel it's so unfair that I DID miscarry at a time that I DID feel ready, and how backwards this is.  And how unfair it is that I have no trouble getting pregnant when I don't care one way or another whether I become a mother or not, and some people desperately want to have children and struggle for years with fertility.

We all have battles to fight.  And, if we go into those battles with less fear and anger and instead realize that the tough times are only making us stronger, then we find a way through it, and we DO become stronger.  Everyone's battles are different though.  What's important to one person isn't going to be what's important to another.  And that doesn't make anyone right or wrong.  We all need support and encouragement, and we all need to feel loved and accepted.  I don't want to feel wrong about how I am as a parent or a person in general.  I honor the feelings I had when I was pregnant with Harlee.  They were real and they were mine.  It doesn't change the love I have for him now though.  And now that I've seen the other side - the pain of loss of a pregnancy I DID want - I feel a little more compassionate towards the people going through the same thing when before I honestly just didn't get it.

Everything happens for a reason.  I truly believe that.  I also believe we're only dealt what we're strong enough to deal with.  Sometimes I guess the Universe must think I'm pretty strong, but then I look at other people's battles and think, ya know, I'm pretty fortunate.  I just got slammed with a lot of bad crap all at once, but it's not like I'm living my whole life in constant turmoil.

And that leads to one last thought I had about all this.  It's all about your attitude.  Wednesday, after my cramps let up and I instinctually felt like that was the end of the worst of them, I decided it's time to turn things around.  Yeah, a bunch of crap happened all at once and it all sucks, but there's nothing I can do about it but keep pressing forward and make the best of the good things in my life.  Like my amazing husband, wonderful two-year-old, successful business, and the excitement of building a new house.  There's a tattoo I had been wanting to get earlier in the year, but never really got the guts to just DO it, then I became pregnant and COULDN'T do it, so after all this happened I decided, what better time than now?

It's a blended symbol of the elephant-headed god Ganesh in eastern religions, and the sacred sound of Om.  A friend of mine was using this symbol to help in her own life earlier in the year, and it's been on my mind ever since. Ganesh is the remover of obstacles and bringer of wisdom, which is a pretty appropriate meaning for me right now.  I had it done on Wednesday, and after I left I felt empowered - I did something just for me, as a symbol that I am strong and I can heal and move forward from difficult times, and I felt like, yes, I've got this.  Crap will happen in life, but it's my attitude about it that will create the obstacles, so from here on out, new attitude.

Thursday was still a little hard and emotional, but I honored those feelings.  I allowed myself to cry, and it felt good to let it out.  By Friday I felt cleansed.  The bleeding had subsided, my new tattoo felt healed, and so did my heart.  It was my first day back to do CrossFit again (and do it as a normal person, no modifications), and I was excited. It felt so good, and I felt amazing afterwards.  I also had a hilarious conversation with the gals that came in to work out after me.  I feel like with my positive attitude, I can attract good things, like a good start to my day, the funny conversation we had, and all other good things in my life.

So that's my story.  I hope it helps anyone who may be going through their own tough time.  I also hope it helps to serve as a reminder that we've all got battles, and we may not understand why one person struggles with something we personally find simple, but we still need to have respect.  Don't ever feel bad about the way you feel - they're your feelings, honor them and respect them.  We need to be here for one another, no matter what our battles may be, big or small, ongoing or short-term, and support each other with kindness and compassion, whether we can relate to what others are going through or not.

Lastly, and this is more a note to our families reading this: since we hadn't told anyone about this pregnancy, we decided not to tell anyone about the miscarriage, and I am sharing our story with the sole intention of helping others.  We'd prefer not to talk about this openly unless it's to help others who have gone through something similar.  We have healed together, and while we appreciate your sympathies, we want to move forward rather than reflect on the past and bring up the pain.  We don't mean to offend anyone whom we haven't told personally about this; it's our choice in how we handle it and we felt this was best for us.  Thanks for understanding :)

Saturday, August 31, 2013

Guilt-Free Friday: Cauli-Rice Jambalaya


This definitely hit the spot.  If anyone is trying the whole grain-free thing and really misses jambalaya, then this recipe is for you.  And it's really not much different to make than traditional rice jambalaya is.  Win!  I'm in the process of creating a cornless cornbread recipe though... I tried one I had found online and I wasn't thrilled.  It was okay... but not what I was looking for.  I'll figure it out, don't worry, but in the meantime, I've now got jambalaya, and I'm pretty thrilled about that!  I modified a recipe I had found on PaleOMG  (added some things, took away some things, but more or less same basic principle) and the end result was pretty fabulous.  I highly recommend!  (Obviously, or it wouldn't be a Guilt-Free Friday post!)




1 long link Polish sausage, sliced (andouille is more authentic but they don't have that at my local grocery store)
2 chicken breasts, cubed
1 cup shrimp, peeled and deveined
2 garlic cloves, minced
1/2 yellow onion, chopped
2 cups sliced okra
1 head cauliflower, riced
1 (6oz) can tomato paste
1 (14oz) can diced tomatoes, undrained
1 cup chicken broth
2 tablespoon olive oil
1 teaspoon paprika
1 teaspoon oregano
1/2 teaspoon thyme
1/2 teaspoon parsley
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
salt and pepper, to taste


That sure LOOKS like cornbread doesn't it?  It's not!

It's easiest to rice your cauliflower in a food processor, but grating it by hand is an option too.
Heat olive oil in a large pot over medium-high heat. Add the garlic, onion, and okra and saute until the garlic and onions are translucent.
Add the cauliflower, broth, chicken and sausage. Mix together. Cover and let cook for about 5 minutes.
Add the tomatoes, tomato paste, and spices. Stir together.  Add the shrimp (doing this later prevents everything from getting too fishy).
Cover and let cook for another 5-8 minutes or until cauliflower is tender and meats are cooked through.
Let cool for about 5 minutes.
Enjoy!

Guilt-Free *Saturday*: Paleo German Chocolate Cake (Icing)

icing, just before it thickens
Sadly, this turned into a Guilt-Free Saturday.  But again, better late than never!  I had a busy day with clients and the new house (which now has trusses on it! We have the beginning stages of a roof!) and some last minute swimming before pools are closed up for the summer, and all of a sudden it was time for bed.  And now it's Saturday.

I wasn't really sure what to expect while I was up at 9:00 at night Tuesday night whipping up this cake for my personal trainer's birthday (which was Thursday, but I saw him Wednesday so I figured I'd start his bday off a day sooner).  I was in a baking mood for awhile anyway, so I figured what better opportunity for baking than my Paleo personal trainer's birthday?  German chocolate it is.  And honestly, I've never been the biggest fan of German chocolate cake.  I mean, I like it and all, it's definitely not a bad cake, but not on the top of my list.  I'm more of a spice cake, carrot cake, or pineapple upside-down cake kinda person.

After adding the pecans and coconut
Well, German chocolate has officially made it up to my favorite cakes list.

Holy crap this was good.

I used my chocolate cake recipe from my birthday in February, but added about 1/4 cup of honey to it for a little more moisture.  Then I went off of a bad-for-you German chocolate icing recipe and converted it.  I had no idea what to expect.  That and I was making mini cakes instead of one big round cake, so baking time needed to be adjusted.  Turns out 15 minutes for 3 mini loaf pans worked perfectly.  I greased them with coconut oil and they popped right out.  I love it when things work out!



icing in between the layers

Here's the icing recipe:

1 cup almond or coconut milk
1 cup palm sugar
3 egg yolks
1/2 cup coconut oil
1 tsp vanilla
1 cup chopped pecans
1 1/3 cup unsweetened coconut flakes

In a saucepan over medium-low heat combine the milk, sugar, yolks, oil, and vanilla.  Stir frequently until it thickens - do this while your cake is baking, as it takes about 20 minutes or so.
Once thickened, remove from heat and add in the pecans and coconut flakes.  Stir to combine.  Let cool to room temperature before spreading on your cake.  Try not to lick the spoon too much :)  Enjoy!

I forgot to snap a picture of the finished product, so these are courtesy of Derek's phone photography...

I think he liked it!

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

The Awesomeness of CrossFit!

I started personal training back in April of this year (2013).  Best decision I ever made.  I had been attending a spinning class every Monday evening through the local YMCA and running whenever I could fit that in, but I had plateaued weight-wise plus I HAD to tone up all the looseness from the weight I did lose.  I had this lovely little Y membership that I was only using on my spinning classes, and this great weight bench I had bought from one of my clients, but no motivation to go to the gym or use that bench.  The idea sounded good, but I needed a plan, a workout regimen to stick to or be guided through.  Fortunately a guy I had gone to high school with had just started up his own gym and personal training business and I was already hearing great things about him.  Being a small business owner myself I decided I wanted to support him in his dream while helping myself get back in shape.  Like I said before, best decision I ever made.  All the great things I heard about him were true, he definitely has a gift - I started seeing some impressive results pretty quickly!  And not only that but it was such a great way to get me back into working out.  I was on someone's schedule, I was paying money, I HAD to be there.  It wasn't a kind of situation where I had to debate whether I wanted to go to the gym or not, or go out to the garage and use the weight bench.  No, I was held accountable for this, I had to show up because I paid for this and I'm on this guy's books.  But, in the four months I've been attending, not once have I woken up in the morning and thought, "Ugh... I have to work out... crap."  I have never been so happy to get up that early in the morning, and it's been so much fun to get there and see what limits I could push myself to that day.  On top of that, it's been motivating me to increase the amount of running I do.  I used to just jog laps around my little neighborhood.  Since personal training, I've begun running through other neighborhoods, working from 1 mile to 2 miles to 3 miles and then I even did 5 miles!  Yay!  Yeah, hands down, best decision I ever made.  Well, aside from marrying Justin, or going to massage school... but you know what I mean.

So, what's so great about this personal training?  I got introduced to CrossFit, that's what.  It's amazing.  But a lot of people have been asking me, what IS CrossFit, exactly?

Well, I'll tell you a bit about it.  Here's Wikipedia's definition:
"CrossFit is a strength and conditioning program designed to help people gain a broad and general fitness. CrossFit programming concentrates on constantly varied functional movements performed at high intensity to achieve overall physical fitness, so people are prepared for any physical challenge. CrossFit is a trademark of CrossFit Inc."

My favorite definition, which is the one Derek uses the most, is: "The aim of CrossFit is to physically prepare people for whatever life might throw at them."  And it's so true.  In my few months of experiencing CrossFit, I've gotten a different total body workout every time that worked what felt like EVERY muscle group, and in so doing it's built up my balance and coordination when using those muscles together.  It's so much better than what I had been doing years ago in previous personal training or working out - isolating each muscle group to build strength or tone it up.  I've noticed a HUGE difference in my strength and ability since doing CrossFit, and working out my entire body rather than isolating certain muscles.  Add in the cardio workout you get as well, and you really are prepared for anything.

Different people have asked me what types of machines Derek has at his gym.  It makes me chuckle a bit.  WE are the machines!!  He's just got a bunch of stuff to assist us in developing the strength of these machines we're operating, otherwise known as the human body.  I usually get to use barbells, kettlebells, medicine balls, gymnastics rings, a pull-up bar, and a box for box jumps.  Other pieces of equipment are tires for flipping, ropes for jumping or ropes for climbing, dumbbells, you name it.  Whatever life has to throw at you, right?  This stuff is way better than cranking away on an elliptical, or doing some leg lifts on an abductor machine.  I kind of laugh at the idea that I used to spend so much time on those things back in the day.  When in a real life situation am I going to be confronted with an abductor machine and be glad I've been doing my leg exercises?  But lifting?  I've been confronted with that, and I've been glad for those deadlifts and cleans.  Throwing?  Been confronted with that too, and was glad for that medicine ball.  It makes lifting Harlee easier.  It makes it possible for me to help and actually contribute something to building our house (like stripping forms off concrete walls).  It makes my job as a massage therapist a lot easier.

The workouts are all different every day, sometimes you revisit an old one a few months later to see how you've progressed, but it's mostly mixed up, ensuring you get to use your body in different ways every time.  You've probably heard CrossFitters use the term WOD - that just stands for Workout of the Day.  Derek will post his WOD online each day, so if you want to keep it up outside of personal training sessions, you can.  I can't WAIT to get my weight bench set up once the house is built so it'll no longer be surrounded by clutter and actually be useable.  Not that I'll be using the bench itself - just the barbell, dumbbells, and weights to go with it.  Then I'll be participating in those WODs a bit more often!

A fun element of CrossFit is that you can compete with it too if you're into that.  I can't wait to witness a CrossFit competition myself someday, and occasionally I entertain the idea of competing in one myself...  But lately for me my CrossFit competitions have been my real life experiences.  The two days I helped strip forms at our house and was able to keep up with it from 9:30am to 3:30pm (and that's not easy work).  The day I got to help haul loads of concrete remnants by hand out from around the basement walls (also not easy work).  Being able to help Justin with things I used to not be able to do, like help him lift his heavy barbeque grill from the back of his very large truck, or help him unload a whole bunch of scrap metal from his trailer.  It's easier to keep up with Harlee when I play outside with him, and I'm no longer exhausted after a one hour deep tissue massage on a client.  Yeah, I started this adventure to mostly tone up and lose weight.  And I could be working out to train for a competition.  But now I'm working out to be able to contribute something to our family, to be able to proudly say I can help out, and DO it.  And I'll be able to continue to do things that are physically trying for most people.  It's okay with me if I never compete with this stuff - the experiences I get to have in my daily life are way better than any trophy


I could ever mount on my wall.  Hell, my trophies ARE my walls!  Haha :)

This really goes hand-in-hand with Paleo as well.  You're not going to get optimum results unless you're FEEDING your body as well as you're exercising it.  If you haven't read my post about Paleo, I suggest you do so now.  Paleo gets us back to our ancestral roots and how our bodies were designed to be nourished.  We humans existed for thousands of years before agriculture was established and before factories started playing a role in our eating habits.  We thrived in our natural world eating our natural diet provided by, well, nature of course.  And we were doing great until our diet became industrialized.  Now we're seeing things like rising obesity rates and more and more cases of preventable illnesses and diseases like heart disease, diabetes, digestive disorders, and cancer.  There are even TONS more cases of allergies now than ever before.  It just makes sense that we should be feeding our bodies what nature has provided for us all along, not what man has tampered with.  One of my favorite quotes is from Hippocrates: "Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food".  We can be well if we eat well.

CrossFit goes well with this because it seems to be a fitness regimen that ties into our ancestral roots too.  Before we became industrialized and it became all too easy and common to live a sedentary lifestyle, we had to be physically active.  There wasn't TV or refrigerators.  We had to hunt and gather our food, protect ourselves from predators, build our shelters or travel on foot, and this required total body physical fitness and endurance.  The same kind of fitness achieved when doing CrossFit.

A CrossFit exercise program paired with a Paleo diet truly gets you back to your roots.  With this kind of lifestyle you are fully able to achieve the wellness you were designed to experience as a human being.  And being able to not only experience that wellness now but to be able to carry that with you into your old age is absolutely a priceless gift.


*All you locals who want to know more about Derek and Flex Fitness, check out his Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/FlexStrengthFitness

Monday, August 19, 2013

Converting to Clean-Eating Made Easy

I really really care about your health and well-being, in case you couldn't tell.  I'm sharing all my knowledge and research with you for free through this blog, sharing all my healthy recipes without any cost, and trying to help you understand how Nature provides for our well-being, and how to utilize those provisions to get and stay healthy.

If you read my post, The Science Behind Healthy Eating, you'll know that what we eat directly affects how we feel and function.  If you read the whole thing, you understand how that works.  If you didn't have any of this knowledge before and were born and raised in the United States or any other developed country relying on agriculture or factories for food, you're having a lot of trouble applying this new information to your lifestyle.

I totally get that.

You either need a burst of motivation that just hits you really hard on the head, like, "Oh my god I'm so fat and I'm DONE being fat and I'm going to do whatever it takes to change that!" Or "Oh my god I'm sick all the time and I'm SICK of being SICK all the time and I'm going to do whatever it takes to change that!" Or "Oh my god, grandpa died of cardiovascular disease, and he could have prevented that from eating better, I don't want to wind up like that, I better do something NOW."

Or you need a nudge and some encouragement with detailed tips and guidelines.

Lucky for me, I had a variation of all those options listed above hit me in the head, and that's what catapulted me on my healthy lifestyle journey.  I was overweight and depressed and had also lost family members due to preventable, diet-related problems and I wanted to make a change in my own life for the better.  But I know this is not the case for everybody.  Most of you know you should eat better, but nothing has lit the fire under your butt yet, and you shy away from making the change due to intimidation or uncertainty of where or how to start.  So I'm going to try to offer some tips to help get you started.

Hopefully you at least have the desire to take care of your body.  We only get one, and it has to carry us through our entire lifetime.  It would really suck if it just quit working for you one day because you didn't take proper care of it.  What's really sad to me is how many people take better care of their cars than they do their bodies.  Or pour more effort and energy and money into their pet's health but completely ignore their own.  By all means, take care of your cars and your animals, but you only get one YOU, and YOU need to be in good health to continue to enjoy your car or your pet or whatever else you care about in your life, especially if you have children, and hope to have grandchildren.  I know I'm only 27 and have a 2-year-old and it's hard to imagine life as a grandmother, but I know I probably will be one someday, and NOW is the time to take charge of my health to make sure my body is in the best shape possible to enjoy those years ahead.  More importantly, NOW is the time to take care of my health to enjoy my son currently!  Hopefully you all can find the same kind of drive and motivation to do the same, before you get an irreversible wake-up call...

Making the change to clean-eating (I call it that because it's more broad, but I do like to follow a more Paleo approach if you like to tag a name on things) is pretty simple, really, and I think a lot of people's problems stem from over-complicating it.  With Paleo you eat what nature provides, not things that came out of a factory.  Even if the government claims it's good for you, like whole wheat bread.  Whole wheat bread is still not good for you.  First of all, wheat is not good for you anyway (again, discussed in my last post), second of all, it's still been through a factory and some sort of process before it made it to your grocery store!  You're avoiding processed foods, so yes, even the ever-wonderful-good-for-you whole wheat bread is off-limits.

One problem I think a lot of people have is focusing too much on what you can't eat.  Suddenly the list keeps getting longer and longer to the point where you feel like you can't eat anything!  But that's far from true, there are so many things you can eat on a Paleo lifestyle, they just might not be what you're used to.  No, you can't eat bread, or pasta, or crackers, dinner rolls, rice, tortilla shells, chips, pastries and baked goods, anything with any kind of grain flour in it, anything with refined sugar in it, etc. etc. etc.  Holy crap I just took all your food away from you!  No more sandwiches, no more spaghetti or fettuccine or macaroni or any other pasta dinners you probably frequently eat, no more crackers in your soup or for snacks, no more mopping up your plate with a dinner roll, no more side of rice, no more tacos or wraps, no more chips to snack on, how do you celebrate birthdays without cake or Christmas without cookies?  Breakfast without pancakes or waffles or French toast or biscuits and gravy or even cereal?  Not even oatmeal? You can't even grab a granola bar on the go anymore??  What?!?!

See what I mean?  Are you freaking out?  Yeah this is why I'm met with the "Oh my God you're crazy!!" attitude when I tell people I gave up grain and sugar, or simply that I converted to Paleo.

Yes, it takes some adjusting.  Like I've shared before, our first month of giving up grains involved meals consisting of steak, chicken, fish, and vegetables.  We didn't really know what else to do and it got pretty boring, even though we were experiencing some great weight loss and awesome health benefits.

Baby steps is a big thing.  Carbs are worse to eat later in the day as your metabolism slows, so if you're working towards giving them up but don't want to do it cold-turkey, then just change your last meal of the day instead of all of them.  Then work towards changing both lunch and dinner.  Then breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and ta-da, you've got it.  Remember, it took me a good year to feel like I'm in a good place, and honestly I'm still working on it.  I still have more cheat meals than I'd like to admit, but I'm getting better.  I'm at a place where I recognize what those cheat meals do to my body and how bad I end up feeling physically when I do eat poorly, so it's getting easier to just avoid it in the first place.

If you have a sweet tooth and like to keep cookies and candy around, throw it away and check out my "Post Index & Recipe Box" tab where you can find quite a few recipes I've already been posting that allow you to replace the bad stuff with equally-yummy healthy stuff.  Cookies, brownies, cakes, all kinds of good foods that are normally bad for you.

Oh wait, but what are all these weird ingredients?  Fortunately, believe it or not, I've been keeping it simple for you.  There aren't that many weird ingredients, so if you're interested in trying these recipes, you'll need a few simple things that you can either buy at most supermarkets (Schnucks's I know is a good one) or online (that's normally what I do, and therefore I've included links to those items).  Here's a starter weird-ingredient list for ya:
  • Coconut Oil - refined does not have the coconut taste but isn't AS good for you, unrefined is better for you but still tastes like coconut and will make your food taste like coconut, so bear that in mind.  The link takes you to my favorite coconut oil on Amazon, it's the healthiest, cleanest refined coconut oil I've found so far so I like that I'm getting the nutritional benefit without the coconut taste, meaning I can use it to cook meats and vegetables and whatnot.
  • Almond milk or coconut milk - these are easy to come by in most grocery stores, I usually get my almond milk from Aldi and my coconut milk from Schnuck's.  I've also made my own, which is super easy.
  • Almond Flour - I buy this in bulk since this is the ingredient I use the most in baking.  Anthony's Almonds has the best price I've found so far online and it's been a great product to use, unless you're making cookies.  In which case you're going to have to splurge and get the really good stuff, which is Honeyville Farms.  This is the only product I've used so far that gives me a good, solid, delicious cookie.  Everything else I've used just spreads all over the pan and tastes like a glob of honey.
  • Coconut flour - I've been using Bob's Red Mill, so Red Bud/surrounding area folks, you can actually order this through the co-op.
  • Palm sugar (easiest sugar substitute - you can replace it cup for cup in recipes, and while it does have the same amount of calories as sugar, it's lower on the glycemic index so it won't spike your blood sugar)
  • Stevia - I usually get packets from the grocery store, because I don't use much when I do use it.
  • Arrowroot powder - I don't put this in many recipes, but I've found that it's a great thickener as an alternative to cornstarch, and it does make great breads and tortillas.  At this time I don't have any of those recipes posted, but I'll get on it!
  • Coconut butter - this is only if you intend to make icing for your cakes.  It holds up way better than coconut oil.  Icing is the only time I've ever used this stuff, so it's not high on the priority list unless you regularly bake cakes.
Those are really the only "weird" ingredients you'll need, aside from a few random odds and ends I may have forgotten, but I try to keep it as simple as possible.  I don't want to go running for bizarre ingredients any more than you do, so I try to stick with recipes that call for the same things each time.  Not too bad, right?  Then there are a few items you probably already buy but you'll need to switch up a bit, like:
  • Honey - buy local
  • Maple syrup - ditch Aunt Jemima and buy organic, preferably Grade B
  • Vanilla extract - quit with that imitation crap and buy the real stuff
  • Apple cider vinegar - switch your white vinegar over to just cleaning purposes
  • Dairy products - I advise to just quit buying and consuming milk all together, but if that's for some reason not an option for you right now then do avoid milk that came from cows that were pumped full of artificial growth hormones or steroids.  Same goes for cheese, yogurt, sour cream, etc.  If you can get organic, you'll be doing yourself a HUGE favor health-wise.  But I do advise to limit your intake of those items or avoid it all together.  I plan to write a post dedicated to dairy in the future, so hang tight!
That wasn't so hard, was it?  Other than that, anything else you need for your Paleo shopping adventure is "normal" stuff that you're probably used to buying anyway, but may need a little tweaking: 
  • meats (try to avoid growth hormones, steroids, or meat from animals that have been abused or mistreated.  Go organic if possible)
  • seafood, frozen or canned (wild-caught)
  • fresh or frozen vegetables (organic if possible, otherwise local)
  • fresh or frozen fruits (organic or local, and limit these if you're concerned about weight management)
  • extra virgin olive oil
  • herbs and spices (basil, oregano, rosemary, thyme, parsley, garlic powder, onion powder, paprika, cayenne pepper, cumin, chili powder, black pepper, sea salt, etc.)
  • canned tomatoes and tomato sauce (read the label to see if there's any added sugar or weird stuff)
  • mustard
  • pickles or olives (or anything else that's been pickled)

If you want to take the plunge like we did early this year and just flush out your pantry and refrigerator of any unhealthy temptations, things to throw away (or donate if unopened and not expired) are:
  • any grain flours (unless you want to hang onto white flour to make play-dough or papier mache with your kids)
  • white, brown, or powdered sugar
  • sandwich bread or buns
  • tortilla shells
  • chips and crackers
  • Bisquik or any mixes like that
  • pasta and any pasta mixes (e.g. Hamburger Helper)
  • rice and any rice mixes (e.g. Rice-a-Roni)
  • sugary snacks/candy
  • snack cakes/cookies (e.g. Little Debbie, Hostess, Pop-Tarts, Oreos, etc.)
  • breakfast cereals and oatmeal
  • frozen or refrigerated bread items (e.g. garlic Texas toast, Pillsbury crescent rolls, frozen pancakes or waffles, frozen pizza, etc.)
Basically if it's got grain or sugar in it, or any additives, preservatives, or artificial colors or flavors, toss it and/or quit buying it.  And you don't necessarily have to do it all at once.  You could start with the items that contain gluten (that is, anything with wheat or rye or barley flour) and eliminate those, and hang onto oatmeal and quinoa for awhile until you're ready.  I would avoid corn too because of GMO's, but I do like fresh grown corn from a garden so I'm a little lenient on that.  Or eliminate sugar first and work your way from there.  Think about what you don't eat a lot of anyway so it wouldn't be a huge shock to eliminate it all together, and work your way up.  Go at it one meal at a time, if you need to.  Or take it a week at a time and "cheat" on the weekends.  Like I said before, take it in baby steps.  Don't stress yourself out - stress does you more harm than good anyway.  Find ways to enjoy the process.  Think about all the benefits you've got coming your way by changing to a healthier lifestyle.  Do it for the weight-loss.  Do it for the clear skin.  Do it for the pain-reduction.  Do it for the energy improvement.  Do it for your spouse or your kids or your grandkids.  Do it for the opportunity to do things you previously couldn't do because of health restrictions.  The sky is the limit!

You've got this.  If I could do it, anyone could do it.  And you certainly won't regret it :).

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

The Science Behind Healthy Eating

I've decided to go a little more in-depth about healthy eating.  As you know, I follow a more Paleo diet, and at first this post was titled: "Paleo - A Little More In Depth".  But I realized I can't just box this information up and label it as "Paleo", because giving it a label makes it seem too much like a restrictive diet, or even a fad.  But healthy eating, in general, shouldn't be like that.  Sure, there are diet plans out there, not only Paleo but SCD or low-carb, Whole Foods, etc., but I don't want to label any of it.  Eat healthy, period.  So this post will cover a bit of what I discuss in my classes at ClassOnMain in Red Bud, so for those of you who came and need a refresher, or those of you who missed it and want info, this post will help you.  But this post will help ANYbody understand the importance of eating a healthy diet and how exactly that works.

Many of my clients and friends have been asking me for more information, and I realized I haven't gone into enough depth in my blog about Paleo, so here I am!  Lately I haven't been saying I "follow the Paleo diet", though.  I feel like if I put a label on the way I eat, or if anyone does, it makes it seem more temporary.  Like "I'm following the South Beach Diet" and when you're done with all the phases then you'll be off the diet and back to your eating habits prior to the diet.  Or "I'm doing Weight Watchers" and once you reach your goal you can stop and go back to eating the way you did before.  And then what happens?  You balloon out even worse than you were BEFORE you started the diet.  Most of the time.  I know I've seen it happen a lot.  I've never bothered with following a "diet" strictly for that reason.  Until I found Paleo.  But the thing about this is: it's not a temporary diet.  It's not a program with stages or phases that you follow for a designated amount of time, nor is it a point system that guides you towards your goals.  This is the rest of your life.  You don't "phase out".  You don't reintroduce bread or reintroduce sugar.  You avoid it forever.  Which sounds awful if you're a carb-a-holic (like I once was).

But it's not so bad.  It's actually pretty awesome, once you find the right substitutes for the junk you used to eat and know how to work with it.  But it takes baby steps.  And the determination to change your life for the better.  To burn off that excess fat.  To reduce your risks of diabetes or heart disease or autoimmune disorders or digestive disorders or cancer or allergies, acne, depression, anxiety, etc. etc. etc.  To FEEL and LOOK better physically, emotionally, and mentally, inside and out.  All this can be affected by what you eat?  Oh yes.  And it is.  I speak from personal experience, I know people who can speak from personal experiences, and I've read countless stories and testimonies from soooo many people who have changed their lives by what they eat.

When you look at it on such a large scale like that - the REST of your LIFE - and living a healthier, brighter, stronger, happier life not just now but forever - cutting out detrimental "foods" doesn't seem like such a hard decision, does it?

Okay, so it's still difficult.  But hopefully you're feeling more motivated to do it now that you've thought about all the issues you may currently have that you can reverse by eating better (which means getting off medications, followed by eliminating side effects from those, followed by reducing your risk for future diseases those could have caused... yay!).  And with motivation and determination, you can definitely achieve this goal.

You may have read my story awhile back about how I came across this, but to recap in a nutshell I was struggling with postpartum depression and PTSD and the counselor I was currently seeing suggested I get on Zoloft to make all my troubles go away.  And any of you that really know me probably can already guess that my internal reaction to that suggestion was gasping and falling out of my chair.  This chica right here says NO to drugs.  Period.  But, if I was in bad enough shape that she would suggest that, after knowing how against drugs I am herself, I needed to take action.  She said my alternatives would be trying St. John's Wort, exercising, and changing my diet.  So I got on St. John's wort, started squeezing in some time to jog in the evenings with Harlee in his stroller, and, da-da-da-duuuummmm: changing my diet.

Some of my family members were trying the Atkins Diet and were having great results.  I knew the jist of it was avoiding carbs, and I'll be honest I haven't really done any extensive research on it beyond that, but Justin and I decided to start avoiding carbs.  We both had a few pounds we needed to lose, and I had a life I needed to turn around.  So, no more bread - sandwiches, dinner rolls, tortilla shells, anything like that; no more pasta - good bye spaghetti night, our favorite fettuccine alfredo, macaroni and cheese; no more cereal or oatmeal for breakfast; no more cookies or cake or brownies; no more chips or crackers or pretzels; no more white potatoes; no more sugar; all that gone.  We never realized how heavily we relied on these kinds of carbs... Our dinners turned into meat and vegetables.  Breakfast was fruit.  Salads, sandwiches with lettuce leaves replacing the bread, and that's about it.  The weight was FALLING. OFF.  It was magic.  It was exciting.  But eating was really. really. boring...  So that's when I started researching what other people do - the people who have diseases that prevent them from being able to eat all that "good" stuff.  How do they enjoy life through culinary indulgences?  That's when I discovered Paleo.

Basically, Paleo is eating the way a caveman would have eaten (like in the Paleolithic Era, which ended once agriculture and industry began, about 10,000 years ago).  Now, I've heard arguments from people that if you want to be true Paleo you'd have to eat bugs and you couldn't eat modern vegetables like carrots because those didn't exist back then, but I don't get that deep into it.  I'm eating in a way that relies on nature as my food source.  So that I don't have to rely on industry or agriculture or factories for my food sources.

I've been eliminating the word "Paleo" from my "diet" or lifestyle because, sure, I'm probably not eating EXACTLY like a caveman would have, and I don't want to get technical about it anyway.  Plus I don't want it to sound temporary, like I said before.  I want to keep it simple:
  • Eat real, whole foods provided by nature.
  • Avoid processed or refined foods and anything man-made or artificial - if your food has been through a factory before it got to your plate, it probably isn't good for you.
Of course this research-a-holic had to know WHY all of this works so well though, and I learned quite a bit on my quest for information.  Some of my best knowledge came from the book Practical Paleo by Diane Sanfilippo, who is a nutrition consultant with a history of bad health that's been reversed by following a more Paleo lifestyle (and therefore the motivation to help others change their lives too).  I'll try to keep this simple and to-the-point so everyone can understand this without any trouble.

The big factor here is carbs.  There are good carbs and bad carbs, but the one thing you need to remember is:
  • Carbs = Sugar
Whether good or bad, carbs convert to sugar in your body.  Whether they started as a Snickers bar, a banana, a slice of bread, or a sweet potato, it all turns into glucose: sugar.  Bad carbs have no nutrients - your body can't really do anything with them (that's why they make you fat).  Good carbs, however, have nutrients that your body can use to convert the carbs into energy.  Unless you burn it off in exercise first, your body will store glucose as glycogen in the body - also known as fat.  There are two kinds of fat: triglycerides (circulating blood fat) and adipose (body fat - either on your butt or around your organs).

If your goal is to reduce body fat, blood sugar is an important factor to keep in mind.   Here's why:

Your pancreas secretes insulin in response to high blood sugar in order to bring your blood sugar down to a normal level.  It spikes when you've consumed a lot of carbs (and you know why - because carbs = sugar).  It'll pull nutrients from your blood stream to help burn the carbs for energy.  Your body fat isn't going anywhere though.

If your blood sugar is low, however, your pancreas will secrete glucagon, which is the opposite of insulin - it'll pull nutrients from storage (in your fat cells) and release them into your blood stream to be used for fuel.  If insulin is dominant, glucagon can't do its job.  Insulin is dominant if you've eaten carbs.  If glucagon is dominant, however, you can burn fat.

So, if you've eaten a banana for breakfast and you go to work out (or you eat it after your workout, whichever), then your insulin responds to the banana, since it's so high in natural sugar.  Sure, it's loaded with nutrients that are great for your body, so you're certainly not hurting yourself by eating it, but your body fat isn't going to go anywhere if your insulin is working on that banana's sugar.  If you've eaten bacon and eggs for breakfast or some form of low/no-carb, high-protein food, your body is going to pull nutrients from your fat reserves for fuel.

Get it? Fabulous!

What if your goal is improved health?  Well, check this out:  bad carbs like grains and legumes which are void of proper nutrients for your body to use to break them down (and obviously sugar fits in the "empty calorie" category, too) have built-in defense systems against digestive enzymes.  Just like we have legs to run away from predators, grains (which are the plant's seed and what the plant needs in order to procreate and continue on the species) have proteins that make them difficult to digest so they may pass through unharmed and go on to be planted.  Gluten is the most common and most harmful one, but even gluten-free grains contain proteins that can cause plenty of digestive issues.  Grains also contain anti-nutrients, which adhere to nutrients (like calcium, for example) that our bodies need to use and instead pass them through our system so our bodies can't absorb them at all. So, if you're eating cereal with milk thinking you're getting calcium from the milk, the anti-nutrients in the cereal are actually preventing your body from absorbing the calium, so you've really gotten nowhere with that meal.

So, by eating grains you're not getting any nutrients, plus you're stressing out your digestive system which has to try to work against the grains' proteins, which leads to inflammation.  Inflammation is your body's response to illness, injury, or trauma - which is a good thing - you want your body to respond to that (which is why you shouldn't medicate a low-grade fever, but that's an entirely different post), but if you're eating too much food that's difficult to digest, then your inflammatory/immune response is spending all it's energy on your digestive system, which leaves the rest of your body susceptible to infections, allergies, or even diseases.

If you're eating foods that are compromising or damaging your digestive system, think about the fact that 60-80% of your immune system is found in your gut (remember that post?).  The ability to fight chronic or acute diseases is affected by your digestion.  If you're gut has trouble handling the food you eat, you're hurting your immune system, and when your immune system is affected, your entire body is affected.  Poor eating habits don't just result in a bellyache.  They can result in allergies, skin conditions like eczema or psoriasis, migraine headaches, digestive disorders like diverticulitis or irritable bowel syndrome, and a great deal of other issues.

Eating poorly can damage your immune system and increase inflammation in the body.  The longer you fill your body with junk, the worse your system becomes.  Diseases like autism, multiple sclerosis, Alzheimer's, Hashimoto's, arthritis, depression, osteoporosis, Crohn's disease, cardiovascular disease and even cancer can all be reduced, reversed, or avoided by cleaning up your diet.

This is where Paleo comes in.  It takes us humans back to our roots.  We were put here on this planet by nature and so was our food, so when following a Paleo lifestyle we turn to nature for our food.  Not factories or refineries.  Not boxes or bags.  By fueling your body with foods found in nature, you're giving your digestive system something it recognizes, something that won't damage it and thus your immune system, and in turn giving it something that benefits you systemically.  Your blood will be cleaner, your veins and arteries will benefit and then in turn so will your heart.  Your clean, nutrient-rich blood travels to your muscles, which will be able to function more efficiently, and to your organs (including your skin!) so they'll reap the benefits as well, and with those added nutrients be able to do their jobs more efficiently.  They'll be able to reduce the leftover toxins in your body, which means decreasing excess body fat.  Your nerves will improve, which means your brain will work better, and when it's in charge of controlling the whole works then your entire body will improve, both physically AND mentally/emotionally.

Do you see how important healthy eating habits are? How everything you consume affects your entire body?

It's a pretty big deal.  Hopefully this post made you take a look at your life.  Reflect on your own problems, diseases, or illnesses.  Your aches and pains.  Your weight.  Your mental clarity or emotional state of well-being. Think about the medications you're on.  Even the supplements you think you "have" to take.  Review your past issues, your current issues.  Your family history of diseases that you could actually prevent from happening to you just by eating better.

Now, you could keep buying and eating sandwich bread because sandwiches are easy and convenient.  Or pasta because it's something quick, simple, and filling.  Or cookies because they just taste good and you want a cookie.

Or you can say, no, I want to enjoy my life, both now and in my old age, and I'm going to start by changing what I eat.

And if you've been paying attention to my Guilt-Free Friday posts, you'll know that it's actually quite easy to still enjoy things like cookies!

Hope that helped shed a little understanding on the Paleo lifestyle, and provided you with the motivation to get HEALTHY.