Thursday, February 26, 2015

Facebook - My Lenten Resolution



I decided to try giving up my Facebook newsfeed for Lent.  I haven't participated in Lent in over a decade, but I always liked the idea of doing something to better myself.  And I have a confession to make (and I'm making it because I believe there are a lot more people in my boat than are willing to admit) - Justin and I play on Facebook waaaaay more than is appropriate (in my opinion).  That and I was sick of seeing so many controversial, bold statements being made by a lot of people and groups I was part of.  I decided we needed a break.  We needed to pay more attention to each other and to our boys and to the people we were around in social settings.

But I think that's what we need to work on the most - WHEN we play on our phones, more so than what we're doing on them.

I like Facebook.  I stay in touch with my friends, with out-of-town family members, with clients.  I post pictures of my boys so people can see what they're up to as they grow.  I see what my friends are doing and it gives us more to talk about when we're together.  I like seeing my friends' pictures and statuses.  I'm part of groups of like-minded people, and I usually learn new things through them.  I also do a lot of advertising on Facebook for my business, and I share things I feel are important by posting articles I've read or snippets of articles, which makes the information get around more quickly than these blog posts.
I've missed out on things in this short week.  A few friends had babies, a few other friends had children who reached milestones, and different new around town has been shared that I didn't get to see.  People brought things up while in massage sessions with me that I would have known about had I been online, and I felt out of the loop.  I guess it's not overly important that I know all the latest gossip, but some things are actually important and not simply gossip.  As a business owner I almost feel like it's necessary to be online.  As a business owner you need to keep up with the times, stay current with social networking, stay in touch with your community the most efficiently.

Facebook can also hold a lot of drama.  People get courageous when they're not face-to-face with a person, and they feel they can say whatever they want, however they want to.  And they do.  I've seen it, and it does bother me.

But, in this first week of Lent, I've realized that it's not the use of Facebook that's preventing me from being a better person, it's HOW I use it.  And that goes for everyone.  If you're going to use it to stir up drama, yeah that's not good.  If you're going to browse it when you're supposed to be playing with your children, or on a date with your significant other, or hanging out with your friends, that's not good either.  And unfortunately, Justin and I have been guilty of that.

So for Lent, and forever after, we're going to make an effort to not play on it.  If we're alone and nobody needs or wants our attention, we can play on Facebook.  If not, our phones need to be put aside so we can focus on the people who are present with us in real life, not on cyber space.  Cyber space can wait.  Real life is happening now.

And on that note, we're going to have family movie night.  Have a great night!

Monday, February 9, 2015

More Vegan Cheesecake (Cuz It's My Birthday!)

I love birthdays.  I've probably mentioned that before.  I made two vegan cheesecakes for my birthday too and I'm SO happy with the turn-out!  By the way, I've been eating dairy little by little and Elliot has shown no adverse reactions to it.  So I'm thinking we are in the clear from his former dairy allergy!  I still don't eat it a LOT because I've noticed I personally feel better when I avoid it (and my skin is clearer, too, among other things), but sometimes it's hard to pass up (like in the form of cheese or milk chocolate...).  However, even though I don't HAVE to avoid dairy, I'm not going to stop making this dessert.  Seriously, it's THAT good.

This has been a great birthday weekend so far.  I couldn't have asked for better weather for February, thanks Mother Nature!  Friday night I had some friends over - I decided it's easier to just have everyone come to me rather than going out, that way we can hang out at our own leisure and nobody has to worry about getting sitters for their kids or anything like that.  Plus Justin makes pork steaks that rival anything I've had at a restaurant so I'm always happy to stay home if those are on the menu!  Everyone brought a dish and we had a great evening.  And I'm pretty sure everyone gave the thumbs-up on my "cheese"cakes!

Me, the girls, Elliot, and his two little buddies on the way :)




Saturday we took Rachael with us to the St. Louis City Museum, because you're never too old for that place, and I wanted to do something I don't normally get to do.  We got sushi for lunch and then played the rest of the day.  It was fun!  And a little rough on the knees... The weather was so perfect, though - which worked out great for playing outside!


Sunday Rachael and Cassie came over for a birthday party workout, which was so much fun!  I really liked this one - Rachael surprised me with the line-up, so it was nice to not have to make one up myself.  It was a rough one though!  We started out doing 86 lunges... which we immediately decided to change to 86 front kicks and did 19 lunges instead.  My butt is sore from all that leg work...  I really liked that it was a 29 minute AMRAP though (As Many Rounds As Possible).  It forced us to get a good half-hour workout in, when normally my crossfit workouts have been done in 5 minutes.


Later we took the Harleys out with Clay and Barbi and rode up to Bully's Smokehouse in Columbia for a late lunch.  Ooohhh I've missed the bike... We hardly rode at all in over a year, being busy with the house and me being pregnant with Elliot, so it was nice to finally get a good ride in.  Hope we can get more in the books this spring and summer!




Justin and I watched The Giver after the boys fell asleep.  Holy crap that movie was powerful.  Or at least I thought so.  I read the book a loooong time ago so I kinda forgot what it was about, but I remember liking it.  Don't remember it being that intense though...

After a busy weekend, I spent today, my actual birthday, not doing anything too exciting at all.  We went to the chiropractor, then I had to get blood drawn to check my thyroid and adrenals (more on that some other time), happy birthday to me... Then we did a little shopping.  We did eat at Olive Garden, per my request, and now I feel lazy and sluggish from the breadsticks and pasta.  Good reminder why I try to keep my diet clean...  Clay and Barbi are coming over again this evening for pizza (yeah, I'm doing it to myself again!) and that's a wrap for my birthday!  It was a great welcome into the last year of my 20s!

Here's the recipe for my "cheese"cakes!  I'll start with the lemon-blueberry.  That was originally going to be my only cake, as I'm a sucker for lemon and blueberry flavors, but it's not a favorite flavor combo for everyone, so I did a back-up cake with a chocolate-heath flavor.  It was way less healthy... but so freaking good regardless... haha :)



Lemon-Blueberry "Cheese"cake

For the crust:

2 cups pecans, ground into flour
2 tbsp coconut oil, melted
4 tbsp pure maple syrup
Dash sea salt

Mix all ingredients until combined.
Line a 7x11 (or 8x8, which is what I used) glass baking dish with parchment paper
Spoon in crust mixture and flatten evenly

For the filling:

2 cups raw cashews, soaked in water overnight
2-3 tbsp coconut oil, melted
1 tsp vanilla
2 tbsp pure maple syrup
Dash sea salt
2 tsp lemon extract
3 tbsp lemon juice
 
Discard the water the cashews had been soaking in.
Combine soaked cashews, coconut oil, vanilla, maple syrup, and salt in the food processor.
Blend until creamy and smooth.
 
 
For the topping:
2 cups blueberries, frozen or fresh
1/2 cup honey
1-2 tbsp arrowroot powder
1 tbsp lemon juice
1/2 tsp vanilla extract

Combine the blueberries and honey in a sauce pan and bring to a boil while adding the lemon juice and vanilla.  Simmer about 5 minutes and add the arrowroot while stirring until it is all combined.  Simmer on low until thickened and take off the heat. 
 
Take half the filling a set aside.  Mix the other half of the filling with some of the juice from the blueberries.  Swirl the two halves of filling together and spread out in the baking dish.  Top with blueberries, place in the freezer for a couple hours to set, then move it to the refrigerator to soften before serving.  Enjoy!
 
 
Chocolate Heath "Cheese"cake
 
For the crust:

2 cups pecans or almonds, ground into flour
2 tbsp coconut oil, melted
4 tbsp pure maple syrup
Dash sea salt

Mix all ingredients until combined.
Line a 7x11 (or 8x8, which is what I used) glass baking dish with parchment paper
Spoon in crust mixture and flatten evenly

For the filling:

2 cups raw cashews, soaked in water overnight
2-3 tbsp coconut oil, melted
1 tsp vanilla
2 tbsp pure maple syrup
Dash sea salt
1 tbsp cocoa powder
 
Discard the water the cashews had been soaking in.
Combine soaked cashews, coconut oil, vanilla, maple syrup, salt, and cocoa powder in the food processor.
Blend until creamy and smooth.

Spread filling out over the crust, top with melted chocolate and Heath toffee bits, and freeze for a couple of hours.  Move to the refrigerator to soften for a couple hours before serving.


Thursday, February 5, 2015

Slow Down, People!! Essential Oils Safety

I've been itching to write this post.  So so eager to get this information out there.  Our little community has exploded with essential oil users, my Facebook newsfeed is loaded with posts about people using oils or recommending oils or boasting about oils.  You all have probably heard at least something about the amazing healing power of essential oils by now, and you probably have an awareness that essential oils are so much more than something to smell.

But, do you personally know an aromatherapist?  Do you even know what an aromatherapist is?

If you started getting into essential oils, who got you started on them?  A chiropractor?  A massage therapist?  How in-depth have they been trained on using these gems of natural healing?  I'm a massage therapist and I can speak for our category that we are not specifically trained in essential oil use - aka aromatherapy.  I'm pretty certain chiropractors aren't either.  They're trained in the manipulation of bones and in working with the nervous system.  We're trained in working with the muscles.  Aromatherapists are trained in healing with essential oils - using them safely, properly, and effectively.

We're all learning as we go.  I know I am.  I was under the impression essential oils are totally safe.  I was under the impression you can use any of them anytime anywhere with no repercussions.  I was under a lot of impressions...  But I wasn't raised around them - they've been a totally new concept to me as a natural healing method for only three and a half years.  I've been raised around herbal remedies and homeopathic remedies my entire life.  I certainly don't know everything about those remedies, but I've had quite a few years to research them and learn as I go.  Three and a half years isn't a very long time.  Not for something as broad and complex as essential oils.

Essential oils need to be treated with a bit more respect.  I realize people have gone a bit overboard with them, including myself.  But just as you wouldn't OD on a pharmaceutical drug (I hope), you shouldn't OD on essential oils, either.  They are medicine - the chemical components of the healing elements of a plant - real, powerful, effective medicine and should be used for their intended purposes.  They can do amazing things, as my family and I have experienced first-hand.  But if overused, they can cause harm, which we've also experienced first-hand.  The last thing I want is for anyone to get hurt out of good intentions, and then on top of that wind up with these oils getting a bad name all because of misuse.

I wish I had learned more about them before diving in head-first.  We've had a few negative experiences due to my lack of knowledge.


The realization of my huge lack of knowledge set in when I attended the first class conducted outside of my Young Living oils (yes, I've branched out, more on that later) by and actual aromatherapist - somebody who specializes in essential oils and aromatherapy.  She spoke of overusing the oils, and not going overboard with them because it takes a toll on our livers.  The liver needs to filter everything, and these oils are so incredibly potent that they create extra work for your liver, so you can see how overusing the oils can possibly wind up causing more harm than good.

That was us in late November/early December.  We had cold symptoms going on for quite awhile - runny noses, coughs, whatever, and several times we kept catching bugs going around resulting in fevers or fatigue, etc.  This was all happening despite my daily use of Thieves, applied to our feet as well as diffused in the air overnight, along with other oils that are supposed to be good for the immune system.  I was using these a couple times a day, every day, and we were not getting better.  Why were we not getting better?  I brought this up to the woman conducting the class and she suggested I cut the oils out.  Give our bodies a break.  So I did.  I didn't apply Thieves that night, nor did I diffuse it, and I didn't touch them at all the next day.  I took my normal supplements, and gave Harlee his normal liquid vitamins in his juice, and left the oils out.

Wouldn't ya know, within days we were better.  Coughs gone, noses clear, feeling good.  All of us.  And we haven't been sick since (well, Harlee just recently developed a cough but I'm treating that homeopathically and relieving it with intermittent use of essential oils).

Another experience I had came from doing too many Raindrop sessions at my office.  The Raindrop Technique basically uses a bunch of essential oils that are antibacterial, antifungal, anti-infectious, anti-microbial, etc., etc. and they are applied to the feet along the reflexology points of the spine (the edge of the arch of the foot) and dripped directly along the spine and worked in with different massage techniques.  It's supposed to boost your immune system and give you added health benefits.  But after I learned about overusing the oils, I've been a little leery of doing these sessions anymore... especially because Wintergreen, Oregano, and Peppermint were three very strong oils used in the session and those are ones that I've learned should be used sparingly.  Among them are Basil, Thyme, Cypress, and Marjoram, and the Young Living blends AromaSiez and Valor (which has frankincense in it, another very powerful oil).  I had been performing these sessions at least 1-2 times a week since the end of October.  Now that more excitement has spread through town about the effectiveness of essential oils, it seems like EVERYONE wants to get their hands in them.

Meanwhile, Elliot developed some terrible eczema on his back.  It covered his entire back, from his butt to his neck, and occasionally I could tell it bothered him, which I tried relieving with coconut oil and lavender oil.  I couldn't figure out what would be causing it - my diet?  Our laundry detergent?  I was at a loss.  Until I spoke with the aromatherapist I had met at that last class about learning something to replace Raindrop therapy, and we scheduled a class for myself and two other gals (one being a nursing mom as well).  The instructor said she was going to check and make sure that this class was safe for nursing mothers, and at that moment I thought, wait, you mean that's something we should be concerned about?  I told her how many raindrop sessions I had done, and at that moment she said "Oh my goodness STOP.  Don't do anymore.  I guarantee that's where your son's eczema is coming from."

I haven't done another session since the first week of January.  I haven't changed a single thing in my lifestyle otherwise.  And wouldn't ya know, Elliot is all clear - not a single speck of eczema to be found on his skin anywhere.

At that moment, I felt an intense desire to spread the word about oil safety.  I'm working on scheduling a class for her to come out and teach my community about safe essential oil use, so stay tuned.  I hope everyone can make it, no matter whether you're a Young Living user or a DoTerra user or Mountain Rose Herbs or Plant Therapy, or what have you - we're all using the oils and we all need to know how, and the way to learn is through someone who's been specifically trained in using them.

So many of my clients have come through and rattled off the arsenal of essential oils they've been using on themselves and/or their kids, and I've really been getting worried.  Quite a few pregnant woman have been using them too much too, like taking them internally, which is soooo so dangerous.  I knew the experience I had - I'm so thankful it wasn't worse.  I'm feeling scared for all the people out there using them so much and getting so gung-ho with it thinking they're completely harmless.  While there are plenty of oils that are a lot safer than others, like lavender, there are also a lot of oils that should be used sparingly, like peppermint, oregano, and wintergreen.  I used peppermint all the time, especially to ease an upset stomach (which it works wonders for, by the way!).  But you absolutely should not use peppermint on children under 3, as it can possibly cause breathing spasms, and otherwise should use it sparingly.  It's powerful!  Oregano has been a household favorite, especially after it cured Justin's strep throat, but again should be used sparingly.  Using it too much can be toxic to the liver.  Yet I've heard of so many people using it in "homemade flu shots" and I've seen those recipes all over Pinterest.  Slow down!  Oregano packs a punch and should be used in big situations, like the strep throat incident.  I'm glad I learned this - we started using it simply to cure a sore throat just as a precaution.  We've since quit using it at all and will only save it for acute situations (which hopefully we won't run into but it's good to have on hand).  And Wintergreen - it's one of few of the only plants in the world that naturally contains methyl salicylate, which is the main ingredient in aspirin.  No wonder it's such an effective pain killer!  But using it too much can create a toxicity, just as taking too many aspirins would.

I could go on for days.  And I have so much more to learn too!

I'm excited about what I've already learned, and excited to continue to learn more.  Keep those oils on hand, but use them with a little more reverence.  They're powerful, and should be respected as such.  I know I'm going to be a bit more careful with them!  I'm going to keep learning more about them, too.  I've finally found an opportunity to get REAL education about them, unlike any other I've been able to find before, even through Young Living.  And don't worry, Young Living is an amazing company.  I'm just realizing there's more beyond that.  Email me if you'd like more information, otherwise stay tuned, I'll definitely be writing more about it soon!